Published by Primary Press, the memoir examines the emotional and practical challenges of dementia care, including safety, memory care, grief, and maintaining personal connections.
NEW YORK CITY, NY, October 26, 2026 — Author and retired healthcare professional Robert M. Fleisher announces the publication of The Long Farewell: A Caregiver’s Journey Through Alzheimer’s, Love, Loss, and Lessons Learned, a memoir released September 15, 2026, by Primary Press. Drawing on his experience caring for his longtime partner, Lynn, Fleisher shares a personal account of Alzheimer’s disease and the decisions families face as cognitive decline changes relationships, daily routines, and caregiving responsibilities.
The book follows Fleisher’s experience from the earliest signs of Lynn’s cognitive changes through diagnosis, assisted living, memory care, and the difficult transitions that followed. Through personal reflection, he examines the practical responsibilities and emotional challenges associated with supporting a loved one whose memory and independence are gradually affected by dementia.
Fleisher’s account addresses concerns commonly encountered by family caregivers, including recognizing changes in behavior, evaluating care arrangements, maintaining safety, navigating healthcare decisions, and balancing personal responsibilities with the needs of a loved one. The memoir presents these experiences through the perspective of a partner rather than as a clinical guide or substitute for professional medical advice.
Examining the Challenges of Alzheimer’s Caregiving
A central theme of The Long Farewell is the relationship between personal responsibility and emotional well-being during prolonged caregiving. Fleisher describes circumstances in which protecting a loved one’s safety may require decisions that are emotionally difficult, particularly when considering assisted living or specialized memory care.
The memoir also explores the emotional consequences of these transitions, including uncertainty, frustration, guilt, and grief. Fleisher reflects on how caregiving responsibilities evolve as communication and recognition become increasingly difficult, while emphasizing the continuing importance of dignity, patience, and personal connection.
Drawing on his healthcare background and his fifteen-year relationship with Lynn, Fleisher considers the differences between understanding illness professionally and experiencing its effects within an intimate relationship. His account illustrates how medical knowledge and emotional readiness do not always develop together when a family faces progressive cognitive decline.
Alongside the challenges, the book includes moments of humor, tenderness, and companionship. These experiences provide a broader view of caregiving, showing that personal relationships can retain meaning even when familiar patterns of communication and interaction change.
Addressing Grief, Self-Care, and Family Decisions
Beyond the immediate responsibilities of care, The Long Farewell examines the emotional impact of anticipating loss while a loved one is still alive. Fleisher discusses the continuing adjustments caregivers make as dementia progresses, including changes in relationships, personal routines, and expectations for the future.
The memoir also addresses caregiver self-care and the importance of recognizing emotional strain. Rather than presenting a universal approach to Alzheimer’s caregiving, Fleisher shares observations from his own experience and acknowledges that individual circumstances, family relationships, and available resources influence caregiving decisions.
Through The Long Farewell, Fleisher shares his personal experience caring for his longtime partner, Lynn, as Alzheimer’s disease progressively affected their relationship. The memoir examines the emotional challenges of caregiving, difficult decisions surrounding safety and memory care, and the importance of preserving dignity, compassion, and personal connection.
Through this account, Fleisher seeks to contribute to conversations about the experiences of families affected by Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia. The book is intended for caregivers, family members, and readers interested in understanding the personal dimensions of cognitive decline.
Its broader themes include aging, mortality, resilience, and the importance of recognizing the individual beyond a medical diagnosis. Throughout the narrative, Fleisher emphasizes that changes in memory and cognitive ability do not diminish a person’s need for compassion, respect, and meaningful human connection.
About Robert M. Fleisher
Robert M. Fleisher is an author and retired endodontist whose professional background includes working in healthcare. His memoir, The Long Farewell: A Caregiver’s Journey Through Alzheimer’s, Love, Loss, and Lessons Learned, draws on his fifteen-year relationship with his partner, Lynn, and his personal experience supporting her through Alzheimer’s disease. His writing examines caregiving, relationships, grief, and the emotional decisions associated with progressive memory loss.
Book Information
Title: The Long Farewell: A Caregiver’s Journey Through Alzheimer’s, Love, Loss, and Lessons Learned
Author: Robert M. Fleisher
Publisher: Primary Press
Publication Date: September 15, 2026
Available Formats: Paperback and Hardcover
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1966175345
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